I'm a mother of two boys. My 14 year old is Mr. C and my 4 month old is Mr. J. Having children 14 years apart is a challenge all in its own. . I was totally thrilled when I found out I was going to have another baby. We discussed how we would break the news to Mr. C. I was fearful of my spoiled, teen, only child, to whom I've catered every whim, would have a difficult time with this news. When we broke the news, he really had no reaction.